How Would You React…What Would You Do?
This just happened to us last night and felt it was very important to share this experience to help others and also to get some feedback…
For the past 4 months we have been trying to hook up with this one couple we’ve been emailing back and forth we met on CL. Last night was the night we were finally going to meet them. Dan text Pat and asked if we wanted to meet up and we said yes, then Dan text Pat and said, “Btw Trish doesn’t like or trust CL so you guys are going to have to pretend to bump into us at the bar.” I was on the fence about it because I didn’t want to be sneaky but at the same time, we’re not looking to make lifelong connections with a couple either. We decided to just do it. We came up with a cover story just incase she asked. We headed down towards the shore to meet them. We got to the place and went in. Dan had told us to sit to the right of him but in actuality he meant right next to him. We sat down and ordered drinks and food. They were talking amongst themselves and so were we until I made a comment that everyone here was texting. We actually hit it off with them. We were bull shitting and talking and things were good and they asked us if we wanted to go to the next bar with them. They were already a little intoxicated at that point so being the nice people that we are we decided to drive them there. It took about 2o minutes to get there and the place was cool however it was geared toward a college crowd, but no worries we always make the best of it.
Several drinks later and conversations between the boys and us girls she “found out” we were swingers. We closed down the joint and the guy was sloshed! We drove them to their place because he was in no condition to drive. She invited in us in. So we went in. We brought in the beer we had brought with us. The guy took it and tried to open it with another beer and SMASH glass and beer all over the kitchen floor. I helped her clean up the mess and then I went by Pat and told him that I thought we should leave. He said lets give it a chance, so I did. The next thing we see is the guy grabbing his girl and kissing her and ripping her clothes off up against the fridge. In a matter of 3 seconds those two were completely naked and fucking up against the fridge.
Then she comes to me and starts kissing me and Pat is behind me drinking a beer and taking my clothes off. Her and I became a little agressive and then her man joined in between us and I turned to Pat and started kissing him and taking his clothes off. He reached over and was touching her and grabbed her face and kissed her as I was sucking on her nipples. I stood up and turned to Pat and his eyes were closed I kissed him and he opened his eyes and looked down. I looked down and saw the guy had Pat’s cock in his mouth and was going to town on it. WOW was what came to mind. I ever so gently reached down and took Pat’s cock out of his mouth and bent over and started sucking on his cock. After a little while we moved into the bedroom.
We had swapped partners by this time and the guy was going down on me and fingering me but he kept putting his finger in my ass and it was uncomfortable and I told him to stop and Pat told him I didn’t like that. He stopped and said ok. Pat was enjoying her. He was going down on her she was enjoying it. I reached over to her and played with her pussy a little while Pat was licking her clit. Meanwhile the guy still didn’t listen after he said he’d stop and now he was hurting. I slapped him away. He said he was sorry. Pat said, “Com’ on man. It’s not her thing.” So we swapped back to our original partners for a bit. Pat relaxed me and got my mind off of it. Then he said,”Let’s let the girls have some fun and enjoy each other.” She and I were all for that. This time she went down on me and Pat was laying next to me just watching. Her man was on the other side of us and kept trying to join in and Pat was trying to be nice and told him, “Come on man, let them have time alone and just watch.” He kept trying to put his finger in me and even she told him to stop. I was laying next to Pat and just kissing him as she was playing with my pussy and the guy tried again. I turned over to Pat and clung onto him with a death grip. She stopped and yelled at him and then he got mad and started slamming drawers and punching the walls because he wasn’t getting his way. I lost it and started crying and hyperventilating. I’ve never done that before. I got my breathing under control but I felt unsafe, threatened and scared. This asshole wouldn’t take NO for answer from anyone. I was scared because the guy was a black belt in karate and he could really hurt someone. I wouldn’t let go of Pat for anything. Pat started screaming at the guy to get out and threatened to call the cops. I just kept telling Pat to make him go away because I didn’t want to see him. Meanwhile Pat was upset and scared because he’s never seen me like this. Pat said,”Oh god baby I’m so sorry I made you stay. Please please please don’t hate me. Don’t hate me. I’m so sorry we came back here. We should have left when you wanted to.” Pat tried to get up at one point but I was body locked to him. I didn’t want him going anywhere with out me.
She was able to get the guy into the bathroom and Pat ran and got our clothes and we threw them on and he made sure the coast was clear so I wouldn’t have to see the guy. We ran barefoot to the truck and left them behind us. I was still upset. I laid my head next to him and he was gentle and rubbed my back and he said, “I feel like such a dickhead right now for making you do that. I should have listened to you. Please don’t hate me. I’m so sorry.” Finally I said, “I don’t hate you and it’s not your fault he didn’t listen or take no for an answer. I just can’t believe that happened. I’ve never reacted that way. You’ve never seen me do that. I just want to put it behind us.” Pat agreed, “Ok so what do you want to do? The beach is right around the corner. We could go there and watch the sun come up or we can go home.” I said, “I want to go to the beach with you.” So we drove the truck to the beach and we climbed in the back seat and we finished the night the way it should have been by having mind blowing emotional sex in the back seat and then we fell asleep to the sun coming up.
…I know this is what we usually blog about but it happens out there. What would you have done?
July 27th, 2010 at 11:04 am
Hi. Sally here. This is the first time I’ve ever commented. Thank you for sharing your experience.
I would have done exactly what you did. Once, a Mr. at a party house kept insisting on biting my clit. Ouch! My husband warned him twice. We ended up leaving suddenly just like you two. That was some 15 years ago and I’ll never forget it. Since then, we tend to not “play” with a couple until we’ve met with them a couple of times. We miss out often, since many people in the SweetLife are into a more immediate experience. Works out fine with us though.
All the best in the SweetLife,
~S
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September 4th, 2010 at 9:51 pm
See I was wondering if other people had run into the same type of problems we had! it’s nice to know you’re not alone in certain experiences in this lifestyle. Just because you’re a couple…no still means no!
P&K